This is going to be a bit wordy so brace yourselves. As I mentioned in a recent post, I celebrated my 21st birthday last weekend…Sunday was the official day but I made it the weekend. My boyfriend asked me why I was so hyped about my 21st but I had no real answer for him, all I knew is that it is supposed to be one of the best moments of my life. I had such high expectations and being the perfectionist that I am, had planned how I wanted it to go for a while. Nothing went according to my plans, nothing at all.
In my head, I pictured an amazing road trip to Naivasha with those closest and dearest to me but there was so much going on that week, people had exams, financial issues and all. I was so disappointed and I couldn’t see passed that. To cut the long story short, I focused so much on what I couldn’t have rather than what I did have and ended up having not as much of a good time as I would have if I saw past it.
Now I’m not going to act like I’m all grown up but I did learn so much from that weekend. For one, things don’t always go according to plan…heck I knew that but, they can go completely opposite to your plan. I also learned more about myself and how I can improve and make my 21st year rather than birthday one of the best. Most of all, I realized how much love I have around me and that there are people who will always come through for me.
All in all, looking back I had an amazing time! I had the people I love the most around me. If I was given a chance to change things, I probably wouldn’t change much and I would still have the same people celebrate with me. Here is one of the outfits I wore on my birthday weekend. An aztec dress which hugs my body in all the right places. It is a dress from a collection I’m working on with one of my friends…I will be sharing that with you soon, can’t wait! Paired it with my favorite booties and lion head gold chain.
|Unfortunately these are the only pictures I got to take while I was out.|
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